withoutyou是與你無關的意思嗎

是有該意思。

例如

It could be that what you want just drops into your lap without you knowing about it.很有可能你想要的東西，在不經意間就到來了。

We've got enough problems without you trying to stir things up.我們麻煩事兒已經夠多的了，你就別再挑撥是非了。